the-ringing-ear asked:

I don't think you're being stupid at all! I can tell waiting for marriage is important to you and I think its best you wait. If you give in ahead of time you'll just feel like you cheated yourself. You've come this far, keep pursuing it. Its something not many people can manage. If he's the right guy, he'll wait because he'll see its important to you. If he refuses to wait, he's not the right guy. Don't give in to something you're not comfortable with to make someone else happy.

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your advice, it really helps :)

im-chuck-bass-xoxo:

“To Santa Claus and Little Sisters” is the title of this poem. It was written in the 1960s by an  Anonymous 15 year old boy, 2 years before he committed suicide. Steven Chbosky (The perks of being a wallflower) used this poem in the Perks Of Being A Wallflower, but had differences. This poem is also in English curriculum for a lot of high schools. It is a very powerful poem, and although it is very blunt, there is so much more meaning and depth behind each line. 

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